Intellectualism
Basic thought beings aren’t going to clique with, support, or like intellectuals — meaning emotionally intelligent and or intellectual in general. It’s 2 totally different thought processes 2 different languages. Simple mindedness (much different than educated curriculum wise but that’s a whole other post by itself as all the degrees in the world could be had but the holder still be ignorant and dumb) thus only perceive the world from their basic level therefore they’re not going to understand anything about you because they’ve not done any inner work on their emotional maturity or intellectual self. You can’t expect depth from the shallow. Shallow remains in the shallow end you can’t expect anything more or idealize more out of them. It’s 2 different levels🤷🏽♀️