Moral of The Story

Names will be withheld in this true life story as that’s just how I am in general. There was a well known famous Woman whose legendary husband essentially left her for a female that basically targeted the Man in question, she was an uber fan-atic and really sought him out going above and beyond to get to him despite the fact it was very well aware he was married. The female even went as far as to lie about their own identity making it akin to the Woman she clearly was after her Man and life really as most miserable manipulators tend to do. As a loved one said “She (loved one) had danced professionally, performed, acted, made her living everything since she was child as where this whatever didn’t do anything. She had no talent or anything else.” Point is jezebels (abusers, bullies, etc) be they female or male are like that. They’re manipulators. They go all kinds of lengths to push out and exclude those they couldn’t ever be or have anything they do out of spaces, etc. They don’t know anything about themselves. Hate and envy will make people do really extreme acts when rationally they shouldn’t even be jealous or worried about what someone else who has nothing to do with them is doing in life because it isn’t even their lane or space to start. Nothing about that person or persons is their business. Now on the flip don’t be surprised when foolish people fall for their manipulative schemes because people can recognize insecure desperation when they see one or rather typically their throwing themselves at them. It’s a power dynamic that they know they can control and toy with them because there is not really any self respect or anything else there. They can waste their time playing with them like a toy because they don’t have a purpose or anything else in life. I was saying on my instagram it’s always funny to me at this point in my life as I’ve encountered it quite a bit usually online how males who are usually up to no good from the start that try to put decent Women like myself “In our place” typically because we turned them down based on having good sense, we’re not about having sex with a total stranger, we don’t go that type of route based on a terrible experience OR just had boundaries. They always use the worst debased example of females to do so invoking us to think or even express “Yes I’m really going to take that to heart, feel threatened, be intimidated by, or feel envious of that… you just keep thinking that. I’m out deuces.” That’s a pimp/exploiter/abuser mentality and behavior however. That’s what they do is try to break the spirit of Girls and Women they spot by often comparing or seemingly replacing them in some way with the worst example of a horrendous horrible example of a persuasion but honestly they’re just playing that being and themselves. I always say this “Nice try but you forgot I’ve dealt with the lowest most despicable of them so it’s nothing new to me.” I don’t put that much stock into people. People are often fickle be they shady or not. In this life you better learn how to value yourself because there aren’t always going to be a whole lot who will value and respect you so you better respect and value yourself.. and walk away from anyone or thing that is contrary to that.

I will close this post with, pretty is as pretty does but ugliness goes right to the core and bone.

As TLC once called it “Being damn Unpretty.” When others really don’t even like themselves when all is said and done they will spew that onto others that they feel intimidated by and generally everything they aren’t by choice or what they have. Of course social media and tech has really fed that dysfunction and syndrome. Comparison, back biting, mean girl mean boy junior high crap, envy, judgement, strife, etc. Social media aside those with a superior complex often have an inferiority complex. If your actions towards others aren’t pretty then change it simple as that otherwise those that do not are going to have one self inflicted road in life because nobody really wants to deal with that type of childish behavior and destructive actions in any form sooner or later it only reflects poorly on those who do so no one else. So check your own actions before attempting to check or point out anyone else’s. Do not do to others what you wouldn’t like done to you. Before pointing fingers ask yourself “Just how unpretty am I really? Am I really as great a person as I believe myself to be?” If your initiating putting someone else down in some way makes you feel better about yourself then yeah there’s something very wrong there.

Unpretty Lyrics: https://genius.com/Tlc-unpretty-lyrics