Nobody Cares

I saw something Diddy posted a few days ago that read “Stop all your b__ing, crying, and moaning. Hustle harder or get the f out of our way.” Whatever he is or isn’t as a person is irrelevant as I don’t know him personally but that is true. There are beings in life that really like to get in everyone’s way with their sob stories, abusive behaviors, and getting in everyone’s face with them, constantly wanting pity and a handout based on pity. Gia Carangi God rest her soul once said “I’d rather be dead than pitied.” She had a point. Dan Pena did make a valid point nobody cares about all your trials and tribulations of your life, it’s bad enough if you’re in your own way but to intentionally get in everyone else’s pleading for pity and attention is intolerable. I’ve told this story before but there was a girl who was in my dance class and extremely toxic before I became pre-professional, she had severe emotional issues to say the least. She would do things on purpose to mess up the group and then would begin crying over anything and everything to the point of distracting for everyone else even on-stage. I think she just wanted attention mostly, that thing of “I’m going to drag everyone else down with me.” Finally one day the tap teacher said after she sat in the back of the class like a kid bawling even though she was near mid teens by that point “You need to stop crying get out of my class because you are a distraction for everyone else.” Her Mom like most toxic parents coddled her and expected everyone to cater to her daughter’s issues to the extent of taking up peoples time until finally one day last I heard she flipped out at school, had to be restrained, and taken for psychiatric evaluation. Unlike some at least she received help ultimately but there are adults that never have, they expect the world to deal with their childish attention seeking behavior. A lot of it is like a child that does that so as not be held accountable for anything. They think if they seek pity they won’t be held accountable for anything in life. Having problems is one thing it’s when you inflict that on people and won’t do anything to correct it that makes those types pathetic. There is a thing of legitimately helping people that actually need it then there is a thing of taking advantage of people as a crutch to continue to foster destructive and abusive behavior patterns. There’s a difference. Those that do the most towards others also whine the most, it’s because they don’t want to be held accountable for anything.