Poignancy

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No someone’s history does not matter if they’ve cleaned up and changed however keep in mind as I wrote above it in my stories there are a lot of problems that can come with it. Often times keep in mind the baggage that can follow that lifestyle or their history returning to haunt happens a great deal. It depends on the circumstances or individual of course but keep in mind of the baggage. You have to really think as someone not of that mindset or background- Is this the life I want? Is this too much to handle and dragging me down? Can a healthy life even be constructed from this? If you can’t answer that question or it seems the likelihood of that occurring is bleak it’s a wrap, don’t even entertain it to begin with honestly. Like many young Women out there I’ve had a lot of problems come at me over the past or even present of men who live that lifestyle despite the fact I wasn’t apart of that or in it whatsoever because that’s what that lifestyle breeds toxic insanity. The females sought to have possession of something that wasn’t actually theirs and they’re basically mad at themselves for putting themselves in that predicament thus being played. And don’t get me started on the wannabe shot down psycho ones they were probably the absolute worst.

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Is it morally wrong to take up with a former monger that has authentically cleaned up? No of course not. But you have to think and be aware of what may come with it. Keep in mind bad boys and bad b’s treat people well as the term suggests … badly most often and there is a great deal of repercussions from it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

A relationship is supposed to add not subtract from your life. If it doesn’t add in the non superficial sense or is too much to handle then it’s not a healthy relationship.

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