Spousal Respect
Ever since I was a kid online and to present day if I admire the work of, professionally networking, speaking with as a strictly professional to a Man who is taken I will also include or follow their spouse, etc as well because that is the respectful thing to do. I was raised you don’t talk to a married man without their wife present. I don’t mess with anyone’s Man I’m not that type of person. That is how I was raised same as in person always include the spouse, significant other, etc respect aside it’s a good idea so their wives, significant others, etc won’t get the wrong idea or God forbid the Man. You don’t be alone with a Man even if it’s professional it’s not a good idea. Only time being alone with opposite gender of preference is valid is if you are romantically interested in or hooked to them. It’s the same thing online in a great deal of respects. There’s too many ways for things to be mistaken, taken out of context, or someone to mess with you. Of course online that can’t always be ensured especially with nosy busy bodies who like to create gossip and excitement especially if it involves the entertainment/arts realm. In fact I’ll interact with the spouse more if possible than the Man when I’m dealing with them on a professional level only because it’s the right thing to do. I’ve dealt with too many problems via tech of the problems really weren’t anything concrete but typical fly-bys, groupies, wannabe groupies, and spread around males that got the wrong idea the problems from it took up far too much time caused too much of an upheaval in my life because beings on tech most often don’t think things through or ask questions they generally just assume things about people they don’t know. I’m stand-offish with Men in particular anyway let alone married or taken ones in that realm especially. There is just too many ways to get caught up as the saying goes. Like I’ve said before I don’t put myself in that position, never have. Bottom line you don’t mess with someone else’s husband and vise the versa. There was an expose’ touching on this subject I’ve posted about before. Everyone wanted to be a video girl in the 90’s and 2000’s partially because the money videos girls were making, now it’s more along the lines of $100 here $200 there it’s not much at all. Now they’re either strippers, escorts, etc very seldom models in the fashion sense and they aren’t what video girls were then.
Courtesy of- BET
It’s what I always say anytime anyone has come at me with any of that very straight up I’m a classically trained dancer I’m not a stripper. I’m a signed model not an escort. I’m a Human Rights Survivor Leader not a front or pose as anything less. I’m a Born Again Jew not just lip service. That’s really who I am period the end.
