What It Would Take

I’ve spoken with other survivors of Gender-Based etc violence and they have inquired “Do you think if you obtained a boyfriend or husband the harassment would cease?” The answer is yes and no. No, because the beings involved in it have a pattern of going after any males they think I’m involved with, either to harass them or smoozy up playing victim to turn them against me filling their gourds with the crap they want to fill it with, and yes if they really were a gangster that would legitimately handle it most certainly it would then cease. Those types they are afraid of real ones. I had someone say to me years ago “Your husband is going to have to be rough so those problems will leave you alone.” There is truth in that. It’s unfortunate that the presence of a Man has any baring on keeping any serial harassment etc issue at bay. Types like I’ve been having come at me again remind me of Hills Have Eyes psycho beings that think they have a license to me and my life that they don’t. Entitlement is the word that sums it up. I’ve gauged a shift when any man has stepped in, present, or they think is, they do go away to some degree. Law means nothing to serial harassers it’s a laugh it’s like throwing a piece of paper at them, but those who can handle them that they are afraid of and is a deterrent. I can say all day long “You come anywhere near me I’ll smack the sh__ out of you” basis in self defense. It doesn’t register or they don’t care. I’ve seen those types go at trap type females with no reservation they seem to see it as a challenge and excitement as where for whatever reason an imposing male who is about that life does scare them off for awhile. In short someone having the history of harassment etc I do would require someone who will come see you about a harasser’s, disrespectors etc sh__ in some form and make them apologize. That is why many Brown and Black Women get with thugs because they have a sense of protection that law frequently fails to do but the other side of that coin is that backfires too because of the toxic behaviors that come along with that.