Why To Never Cheat
I wrote a post some years ago on this subject. As to why never ever take up with a married individual, someone seeing some one else, or multiple people. There have been numerous articles written on this subject but one of the main reasons almost always mentioned is the detrimental safety factor. If I can locate the one article I used as an example for that post I’ll repost it here but in any case absolutely never do it. The main reason other than it being amoral not to mention someone always gets hurt expect their significant other or others to come after you.. often times publicly IE at jobs was one example given in the article mentioned, public outings, calls made, harassment, etc and honestly if you knew they were with someone but were creeping around anyway who could blame them? If you weren’t aware or had any reason to doubt it then it’s not understandable. As an old friend used to say “People commit murder over that all the time.” I had shared with my friend about odd calls I was getting a great deal nonstop around the clock almost as an older person he went on to instinctively say “I bet you, that’s their wifey (a scum bag who kept bothering me) coming after you because he told her a whole different story.” There is no fury nor bounds like a scorned individual regardless of gender. Here are a few fairly calm examples as to the reasons behind never do this — but many times the confrontations are anything but calm.
I’ve shared some of my stories of females over the years just that only thought I had something going with those they were screwing, had screwed, with to some capacity, or what not — let alone imagine if it actually was — you don’t want to be in that position. Don’t look at taken people, don’t screw with them, hit on them or respond to being flirted with nothing because you don’t want the brunt of rage from a thwarted significant other or others because many times they’re not that calm. OR on the other end people who are messing with your significant other confronting you — like the above person did probably having no idea he was sleeping with someone of the same gender and that was obvious by her reaction. One could tell she just thought he was bluffing or had the wrong individual. I’ve seen people get in knock down drag outs and law needing to be called over cheating in relationships or marriage… it’s not a grand sight to see.
Article Credit- Psychology Today
Moral being never take up with a taken or even spread around individual because even then they all think they’re the only one and with that will come fury. You don’t want to be the person that gets the call, public confrontation or even assault or worse from an enraged significant other. Don’t put yourself in that spot in life.
